Tis the holiday season, and with it can come a lot of cheer and festivities. Yet, many people may feel the need to avoid the holidays because they can be a stark reminder of a previous loss.
Grief strikes people in many ways and can be more palpable than ever during this season.
Whether you’ve experienced a recent or past loss, the holidays can stir a mix of emotions that can sometimes feel unbearable. Grief can suddenly emerge not only with death, but illness, dementia, divorce, empty nesting, relocating, loss of home, natural disasters, or other crises.
The most common forms of grief can be categorized into five types:
Grief can resurface long after you believe you’ve processed your feelings, too. You might glance at a photo several years later and find that sadness washes over you, even though you thought you were “done” mourning.
If you find yourself experiencing any of these emotions, there are a few exercises to help the mind filter and cope with what it is trying to process:
Adjusting to your new reality takes time, but there is NO SPECIFIC timeline. What works for one person may not work for the next but seeking wisdom from those who have gone before you can bring comfort through the journey.
Try to branch out and meet new friends. Finding a new circle may seem daunting, but it is helpful to seek a community not only in something you already love, but from people who have or are experiencing similar trials in life. During trying times it’s amazing “who shows up, who’s for real, and who walks away,” as Shinedown sang. By creating space for opportunity, new loved ones can enter the picture and bring much comfort.
Remember that grieving leads to healing. Even though it feels as if the world is upside down and out of control, try to take small steps and achieve small goals so that you can gain back confidence in yourself and learn to trust that even your most painful emotions are an integral part of your life that can lead you to the other side of whatever mountain lies before you. Don’t set yourself up for failure by biting off more than you can chew, I.e., this may not be the year to head an organization or take on a new role at work. Recognize what your personal triggers are and learn ways to work through the dark times. Joy comes in the morning, and through mourning too. I pray for peace and love for ALL this holiday season.
Please do not hesitate to reach out to Access Urgent Care if you or someone you know needs help. You can also contact us for help finding community and anonymous resources for grieving during this holiday season.
Sources:
How to Deal With Grief During the Holidays | Psychology Today
Coping with grief and loss during the holidays - Harvard Health
7 Tips for Managing Grief Over the Holidays During COVID-19 (healthline.com)
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